http://livinggratitude.wordpress.com/2009/01/14/the-gift-of-time/ What are you grateful for today? Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:10:49 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://livinggratitude.wordpress.com/2009/01/14/the-gift-of-time/#comment-28 Secreteers Thu, 12 Mar 2009 06:45:25 +0000 http://livinggratitude.wordpress.com/?p=37#comment-28 I especially love the part where you seem to encourage me to learn from past good memories instead of being stuck in such memories. I already know how futile it is to obsess with people in my life whom I accused of failing to give me the time that I needed with them. This led to the torturing nostalgia of reliving always in my mind the few good memories that I had with them. It was a self-torture for me because I felt I had to always go back and never cease present moments to make new memories with new people. And I call this moving forward rather than moving on. It's being in the present that I am focusing on now to be able to love the right way. Thank you. I especially love the part where you seem to encourage me to learn from past good memories instead of being stuck in such memories. I already know how futile it is to obsess with people in my life whom I accused of failing to give me the time that I needed with them. This led to the torturing nostalgia of reliving always in my mind the few good memories that I had with them. It was a self-torture for me because I felt I had to always go back and never cease present moments to make new memories with new people. And I call this moving forward rather than moving on. It’s being in the present that I am focusing on now to be able to love the right way. Thank you.

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